Rest in peace, Ruth. Our thoughts & prayers are with Michael and the rest of the Wheeler family.
Jesus said, “Do not let your hearts be troubled. You believe in God; believe also in me. My Father’s house has many rooms; if that were not so, would I have told you that I am going there to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am." (John 14:1-3)
Words seem inadequate to express the sadness we feel about your mothers passing, but may her love live on in your memories and bring you peace. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.